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女人都口不对心吗?

女人嘛。。。 是非常复杂的稀有‘动物’吧。其实很多人都不会把心里真正的想法说出来。往往心里想的是一套,嘴里说出来的又是另一套。总活在矛盾之中。 男人应该很难理解为什么女人不能直接点,要男人明白就告诉他们吧。为什么还要兜兜转转,扭扭捏捏地,转弯抹角,让人摸不着头脑。 男人必须知道,女人有很多保护自己的方法。其中之一就是口不对心。有时为了不想让对方知道或表露自己柔弱的一面,就嘴硬的睁眼说瞎话。 B女明明对A君有好感,可是又不知道A君是否也喜欢自己。当A君约B女时, A君:“你看了‘Avatar’吗?我有两张免费的戏票想找人看呢。你得空吗?” B女:“对不起,我看了。不能陪你看。” A君:“没关系。” B女:“。。。”。 B女正希望A君会用尽办法及理由来约她,以证实A君真的想追求她,以免表错情。 男人别误会所有女人都是那样。也有单刀直入的女人。所以男人应该先了解你所认识的女人是属于哪一种类型。

老爸‘老’了

有一段时间,放了工就躲在房里无所事事的让时间过。 最近,就在大厅里一边看电视节目,一边网游。电视节目就在眼前‘跳’,可是我一点也没看进去。在一旁的老爸,就在一旁问东问西。 印象中的老爸是个不苟言笑又严肃的老爸。从小到大,都很少会坐下来陪老爸聊天。现在反而有点不习惯老爸这样的变化。 有时就会陪老爸瞎扯一番。当他开始唠唠叨叨地没完没了,就会借机逃之夭夭。 看着老爸,老妈子日渐增多的白发,突然觉得他们都老了。也发现他们越来越喜欢找我们聊天。可能人老了,就爱唠唠叨叨,怕寂寞及被冷落吧。。。

网上闲聊

晚餐后,就想上网找朋友闲聊。可是登录了之后,望着长长的联系名单,突然不知道应该找谁聊,要聊些什么。。。 有一段时间没上网聊天了。突然想找人聊,还不知道如何‘下手’。 很多时候,尤其是很久已经没联系的朋友,即使看到他们在线,说了一句‘你好吗?’,就不知道该如何接下去。少了话题,就很难维持对话,结果就搞到无言以对的状况。。。 我曾经花上很多时间在网上陪朋友瞎扯,谈天谈地,有时更是谈至三更半夜而忘了睡。 可是曾几何时,我已经把网上闲聊的习惯戒了?这可能是一种好现象。至少可以节省电费! 下次可能再也没人会在网上记得‘Ocean’了。。。

New Year, New Home, New Life

This is the second time I have been to i-City. First time was during Christmas Eve and today is for count down. There was fireworks display. Although the fireworks were not those special and nice one like Cyber Jaya Fireworks Competition but it was so close to you where you can felt that the sparkle going to drop upon you. Supposely today should standby at home and not sneak out for count down. 3... 2... 1... Happy New Year!!! Firework started to explore into the silence sky. Today is full moon :) Early morning, I woke up to assist my mom to move the foods from fridge to new house before the lorry came. My dad has given us notice that he's going to move the house today. He has been in the new house alone all this while. He must be too tired of having a new house without us :P We managed to finish moving those big furniture by 12:30pm. The most troublesome part for me will be 'selection' which items to throw away. I have been keeping alot of 'antique'. I think it...

Children + Fire = Danger

Just step in my house, my sis and mom started to tell story. This afternoon, the house next next door on my right just caught fire. I looked at them unbelievable. Fire? I never thought it would happened just a few meter away from my house and my house was lucky to escape from the fire. The house next to it was caught by the fire as well. Then started to smell some burning smell. The root cause was suspected that the 6 years old child was playing with lighter upstair while his granny was doing house chore downstair. Accidently the fire started to spread. The granny was only notice when someone opposite shout that their house caught fire. The granny immediately escape out from the house with her grandchild. She knocked on my door to borrow the phone but my sis thought it was just some swindle and do not bother her. Later only she sense something went wrong because it was a bit chaotic outside and some burning smell. My mom who came back in the afternoon saw the fire was spreading through...

太执著了。。。

原来我太执著了。 只为了某种信念,只要认定了,誓死也很难改变。就因为这种执著的格性,反而造成周遭的朋友身心俱疲。 与其说执著,不如说是那种好胜的心理在作怪。就是那种死爱面子的人。即使错了,还是不肯承认,还想撑到底。 其实很多时候,只要我稍微改观,接受他人的想法,很多事都能有个大团圆的结局。可是偏偏却为了我小小的执著,很多事都不能迎刃而解,反而闹得大家面红耳赤,不欢而散。 常常想,这是不值得的。人生还有好一段长远的路要走,还有很多事要做。对事有要求固然好,可是太执著反而坏了大事。 想与行动往往成了对比。话说得容易,做起来却是那么的困难。。。

20091213 ~ Broga Hill

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Malaysia's December is full of holiday. Except the first week, we just need to work 4 days per week. Initially plan to go for SkyTrex on 11-December but later being cancelled. It was my fault because I fail to make the reservation early as planned. Felt so bad for my friends since we managed to gather around 10 pax for the activity. It has been a very long time since the last trip I had with HK, Sam, SK... Recently found that my sis went to Broga Hill (武來岸山) which located at Semenyih (士毛多) and the scenery look pretty nice. Suggested to HK for half day trip to Broga Hill. The response was not really good, only me, HK and Sam wanted to go for the hiking. Sam managed to pull some of his friend from Seremban to join for the hiking. There are 2 option either went there as early as possible to catch the sun rise or not. Since it's just for leisure, we decided to depart at 7am from Sam's house. SK joined us last minute. This is the first time I was late to reach HK's house. W...